Vibrators can be used most deliciously:

1. On the frenum:

I use a Hitachi massager (think it had another name but the label has peeled off) which has a white plastic bulb at the end - the vibrating part - which is between a golf ball and tennis ball in size. Both the vibrators described below were gotten at Good Vibrations.
• while lying on bed:
• hold it steady on frenum
• stroke up and down from glans to eyes of consciousness holding it against the skin fairly firmly so the skin moves with it - shake it quickly like the standard "piston stroke"
• while standing:
  • squeeze cock in left hand pressing frenum firmly against ball of vibrator while rolling it around the gates of consciousness. This is esp good for a quick trip to the edge in between other household chores. Can do this often during the day; the standing position means it can be done quickly for a short arousal to charge the batteries for another session working at the computer.
2. On the anus:

I use a Panasonic "Reach Easy" which has a big triangular (5" on 2 sides, 4" on third side) vibrating head and a 14" curved handle which, indeed, makes it an "easy reach" to the anus; can use it while lying on bed with legs and butt elevated on pillows and an ottoman so can reach around beside butt having it touch anus or can reach through legs where have good access to anus, to perineum, to base of cock and to balls, pressing between the two testicles vibrating the urethra under the balls;


3. Use with long, slender, flexible dildo in the butt:

Vibrate the dildo with this vibrator while the ball vibrator works on the frenum. This jack hammer gets right to the prostate which is quite delicious.


4. Using the two together, one on each side of the frenum:

Done while lying down is a great stroke to begin an edging session, esp. a prolonged session; after using the the vibrators 20-30 minutes, there is a unique buzz that keeps going a long time even after have shifted to hand stroking or have stopped arousal and are, say, walking on the street, a buzz which is esp. delicious.

1. Standard metal rings:

I avoid chrome-plated rings, having heard horror stories of the plating peeling off and cutting the cock.


2. Soft, very slightly stretchable, quite wide rings:

Some have a groove to hold a hard metal ring, combining relative ease of putting on and off of the elastic rings described below with the firmness of metal or leather rings.


3. Narrow, colored metal rings:

These are OK, but for me serve best in a very small size (1.25" diameter ring on a 6" circumference hardon) when worn as a frenum ring for decoration and worn at base of cock for super rockhardons without Viagra -- a type of mechanical Viagra; it creates a back pressure of the precum which enhances stimulation a great deal, until I have worn it many days in a row, at which point this enhancement can turn into unexpected cuming; I can piss with this on and can cum with it on, but the cum flow is greatly diminished - don't know what happens to the rest of the cum. Takes a while for the cock to shrink enough to take it off, and then the buildup of precum pours out.


4. Elastic colored rings:

For me the colored metal rings serving as cock ring around cock and balls are dominated by the relatively new elastic colored rings can be instantly put on and taken off w/o careful insertion of first one ball, then the other and finally feeding the spongy cock through, a task impossible once one gets partly hard unless the ring is worn loose as some guys prefer. They are also much easier to put on than the standard snap leather rings, but the disadvantage is that they cannot be made so tight as the snap-leather rings can. Velcro leather or synthetic rings are also good for ease of putting on and taking off but cannot be made so tight. The elastic rings stretch out after repeated use, but can be replaced easily ($6 each).


5. Very soft elastic half inch wide rings:

These often have mock spikes sticking out the outside of the ring, can be worn as cockrings behind balls and cock, but seem to cause irritation after a short time, say 15 minutes, in many guys. But worn around the base of the cock, these are useful to also create a more gentle back pressure of precum and to add more resistence to cum shooting out, but still let it out. These also work well as simple ball extenders and for some exhibitionists they visibly lengthen the flaccid cock inside jeans.


6. Heavy metal rings:

These add a very tangible weight to the base of the cock shaft andn so are nice to wear around during work since they give a constant reminder of being there (like wearing heavy metal balls in the anus). I have problems with wearing these nonstop for days and getting puss buildups where they cause inflammation, then finding my favorite very tight one being impossible to get off because my cock swells up "permanently" (as long as the ring stays on) and so making it almost impossible to get off. After fearing a trip to the Emergency Room to have it cut off, even after hours sitting in a hot bath to make things loosen up and struggling to get it off, I have attached notes to this one not to wear again since it is too risky to me.


7. Thongs:

Some prefer thongs, esp leather thongs, which can be wrapped VERY TIGHTLY around base of cock and balls to greatly enhance the hardon. This is relatively easy to remove, but I find that the separate strands can get caught and can pinch the skin, making removal a bit delicate.

Another toy for tantric play: static electricity applied all over the body, but esp. to cock and balls, when bound on a "table", perhaps leading to orgasm. Anyone got any good insights or pics? Please email me with these so the can appear here.

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